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 時間  2005/06/01 Wed 01:06:02
                                                                                
                                                                                
                                                                                
                                                                                
我說表白這東西，我從來沒說它簡單過。
                                                                                
                                                                                
男生要克服許多，
                                                                                
要克服一但失敗的恐懼、要克服一但從此之後連朋友都不能當、
                                                                                
要克服自己的面子問題等等。
                                                                                
但其實那些都不是最重要的，我想，男生最怕的，
                                                                                
是自己有沒有辦法，能夠給對方幸福。
                                                                                
越是真心的，就越是害怕。
                                                                                
                                                                                
連臉皮比較厚的男生，都要克服那麼多障礙了，更何況女生？

話說回來，一個男人要讓女生開口，不是太殘忍了？
                                                                               
                                                                               
還有，還必須面對一樣挑戰，就是時間。
                                                                               
女生沒有必要一直等你，像電視小說那樣痴心的人，我看很少。
                                                                               
當一直想要確定，其實就是自己對自己不確定，
                                                                               
這時要小心，
                                                                               
因為總會有人比你確定，你不能保證他不會出現。
                                                                               
                                                                               
如果是真心的，就要相信，相信自己可以的，
                                                                               
可以給他幸福。
                                                                               
幸福的成分很複雜，但有一樣原料是一定有的，那就是不悔。
                                                                               
如果就這樣停下腳步，你能不悔嗎？
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
共勉之